Q & A: Pups

Q: How are the dogs doing with Kara?

A: Several people have asked us this question, and we are happy to say that the dogs think Kara is pretty ok. They aren't crazy about her, but they don't seem to mind her either.

Sam, the alpha dog, typically ignores her. She is not a dog and she can't chase him, so there's no point in giving her any special attention. On occasion he is curious about the sounds and smells that come from her bottom, but that's about it.

Kermit, the playful one, is more interested in Kara. He checks on her when she cries, and sometimes he will get up with me in the night when I feed her. He also wants to play with her toys. He loves anything that rattles, squeaks, lights up, is stuffed, or is a squishy plastic. Oh, did I just cover every baby toy ever made? Sometimes he will try to sneak off with her things, and today he got the nasal aspirator (aka boogie ball) and her pacifier. Who knew a pacifier was good for soothing both baby and beast?

This is a picture of the dogs in Kara's crib. If anyone is looking for advise on how to prepare dogs for the arrival of a new family member, you probably shouldn't ask us.

Q & A

We have been asked some great, thought-provoking questions about our transition into parenthood and the experiences we have had. I thought it would be good to share those through little Q&A sessions. Here is the first installment...

Q: What is the most amazing thing you have experienced being a mom that you didn't expect?

A: The way I feel about Kara. I don't consider myself a nurturing person, so I withheld expectations for how I would respond to having a baby. I didn't want to be disappointed or feel guilty if I didn't instinctively love her with everything in me from the moment I saw her.

However, I've noticed just that. I can't describe the exact way I feel, but there is a new softness in my heart, a fearless desire to protect, and a boundless love and awe for this little life. I love watching her and listening to her. I get excited when she responds to my voice and when she tracks me with her eyes. I feel joy and incredible peace when I hold her while she sleeps.

The love is unconditional and it is quite encompassing. It makes me think of the depth of the Lord's love for us. I know the amount of love I have for her doesn't even begin compare to how great His love is for us, and that comparison makes me overwhelmed. It is an amazing opportunity to be a parent and experience the Lord in this new way.

Here are some sappy mommy/baby moments to go with the post.